Why I am feeling this...?

Basically, people do understand that each individuals have their own understandings and own perspective on every single thing in this world. However, people also said that we see things and understand things based on what we want not as what it is…hummmm… how do I go about this? At these 24 years of age, I now can understand many things. It is still up to me whether I want to accept it or maybe just ignore it. Again, people say that ignorance is a bliss. But actually ignorance makes people suffer.

I learn a lot all these years… Mostly in life and relationships. Friendship, family and love. Hate and forgiveness. But still, I am not satisfied. There are many things that makes me what I am today. At work, I’m kinda different person, at ‘home’ of course different character as well.

What I really want is to be happy. Happy in a sense that i am able to do anything that I wish to do without causing any trouble to anyone.

“Thoughts are the shadows of our feelings - always darker, emptier and simpler.”

Just Waana be me....
People always say that we see what we want to see. Is that true? I guess somehow it has a truthness there as we actually see through our brain and our eyes are the medium for us to see.
Am i right?? Haha.. however, in a relationship we tend to make our partner behave or dress or becoming a person of what we want. Instead of accepting he or she as they are, sometimes without us realizing it, we started to complain the way they talk, walk, eat, dress up and the list goes on and on…
These are what I meant by not realizing that we indirectly trying to change our partner according to what we want. Some people have a strong intention to change their partner but some not purposely doing it.
There are some situation whereby certain people really take their own sweet time to accept and understand their partner. And some can just accept their partner as they are not as what they want them to be…
Whatever it is, be grateful if you already met your perfect partner and if you have not, pray hard…..
Most of the times, during a fight or small quarrel or some misunderstanding situation, we don’t mean what we said. We were angry at that time and sometimes don’t realize what came out from our mouth.
Have you ever experience this? I know I have…..
We tend to say things that may hurt the other person’s feelings and end up wih no solution but more anger.
This is unhealthy. Yes I know, easy for me to say than doing it. But the reality is we never really HATE the person that we quarrel with but instead we LOVE them dearly and that is why we can’t stand it when they do something wrong or against us!!!
AM I RIGHT?

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